When You Have a Church Crush

Have you ever had a church crush? Being young, single, and saved isn't always easy. There's a lot of pressure on unmarried saints to find or be found by "the one". And for some--this is easier said than done.

Interacting With Your Church Crush

Christian content creator Elijah Seawright (@thass.lijah) did an amazing job capturing the experience a lot of people have when navigating romantic relationships in church. The easiest way to interact with your "church crush" is usually to go out to eat after service.

We asked our Instagram followers if this method of "macking" is effective? Most women answered yes.

However, some users feel like there aren't a lot of viable choices for dating in the church.

Many women feel like there aren't enough men, or the men aren't as upfront or direct about their interest. A lot of men feel like it's difficult to find a woman who aligns with their physical preference or possess the character traits the desire in a wife.

So, this begs the question--is the church congregation still a good place for people to meet their spouse?

According to Nashville, TN influencer @itsdchanel, it can be. But there are certain qualifications you have to look for. Many church goers meet the love of their lives at church convocations. Her dad thinks this is the route she should take:

Our Instagram followers were torn. Would be better for D.Chanel's daddy to bring her home a church crush or should she try to find love on her own?

The rules for dating in the church can vary across denominations and assemblies. Some people believe the pastor and the church should provide guidelines and opportunities for matchmaking. Others believe it should be left up to each individual.

Give Your Church Crush To God

Regardless of differing opinions, one thing is certain. If you're single but want to get married, you should put God first and pray about anyone you may be interested in.

Feelings lie and sometimes people do too! But God will never steer you wrong.